2.16.2016
Book Haul

Book Haul

2.16.2016


I turned 25 (!!!) a few weeks ago and one of my favorite gifts I received was a slew of books I've had on my "to read" list for ages. Now, here they all are piled up on my desk and ready to go through one by one. The range in genre is vast so I thought it'd be nice to share my honest to goodness reading list here. It's not scholarly or necessarily sophisticated, but it's what what I truly find enjoyable! Charlotte's Web and Out of the Dust were two of my favorite books from childhood. It was important to me to have them in my collection and I also wanted to re-experience them again as an adult, why not! The Perfect Letter is a complete indulgence. I am obsessed with the Bachelor/Bachelorette, no shame. I read Mindy Kaling's first book (Is Everyone Hanging Out Without Me?) and loved it / felt like we're destined best friends so naturally I could not wait to get my hands on her latest book, Why Not Me?. Harper Lee's To Kill a Mockingbird was another childhood favorite, so again, when Go Set a Watchman was released it became a must have. The Year of Living Danishly and The Kinfolk Home are two lifestyle books I am so looking forward to diving into for personal inspiration and motivation to live a slower and more intentional life.

I find reading to be one of the most relaxing things to do, especially at the end of the day. After being slightly burnt out from reading after completing an art history minor in college, it occurred to me about a year and a half ago that I could finally read for pleasure and pleasure only – finally! Though, I do find myself flipping through the pages of my art history text books from time to time (NERD), I've found immense joy and satisfaction in always having a book I'm invested in. I have made a habit to read before bed (almost) every day. It's the perfect night cap and I find that I sleep much better than if instead I had been staring at my phone or the tv. I am always on the hunt for what to read next so I'd love to hear what your favorites are in the comments!

Go Set a Watchman | Harper Lee
Maycomb, Alabama. Twenty-six-year-old Jean Louise Finch—"Scout"—returns home from New York City to visit her aging father, Atticus. Set against the backdrop of the civil rights tensions and political turmoil that were transforming the South, Jean Louise's homecoming turns bittersweet when she learns disturbing truths about her close-knit family, the town, and the people dearest to her.

The Kinfolk Home | Nathan Williams
The Kinfolk Home welcomes readers into 35 homes around the world that reflect some of the key principles of slow living: cultivating community, simplifying our lives and reclaiming time for what matters most.

The Perfect Letter | Chris Harrison
As the longtime host of ABC’s hit shows The Bachelor and The Bachelorette, Chris Harrison has witnessed the joys and heartbreak of men and women searching for everlasting love. A true romantic at heart, he believes that everyone deserves their own fairytale ending. Now, in his first work of fiction, Chris draws on his unique insights and wisdom in a remarkable debut novel that explores love and its consequences—a must-read for Bachelor fans and hopeless romantics everywhere.

From childcare, education, food and interior design to SAD, taxes, sexism and an unfortunate predilection for burning witches, The Year of Living Danishly is a funny, poignant record of a journey that shows us where the Danes get it right, where they get it wrong, and how we might just benefit from living a little more Danishly ourselves.

Out of the Dust | Karen Hesse
This gripping story, written in sparse first-person, free-verse poems, is the compelling tale of Billie Jo's struggle to survive during the dust bowl years of the Depression. With stoic courage, she learns to cope with the loss of her mother and her grieving father's slow deterioration. There is hope at the end when Billie Jo's badly burned hands are healed, and she is able to play her beloved piano again.

Charlotte's Web | E.B. White
Some Pig. Humble. Radiant. These are the words in Charlotte's Web, high up in Zuckerman's barn. Charlotte's spiderweb tells of her feelings for a little pig named Wilbur, who simply wants a friend. They also express the love of a girl named Fern, who saved Wilbur's life when he was born the runt of his litter. E. B. White's Newbery Honor Book is a tender novel of friendship, love, life, and death that will continue to be enjoyed by generations to come.

Why Not Me? | Mindy Kaling
In Why Not Me?, Kaling shares her ongoing journey to find contentment and excitement in her adult life, whether it’s falling in love at work, seeking new friendships in lonely places, attempting to be the first person in history to lose weight without any behavior modification whatsoever, or most important, believing that you have a place in Hollywood when you’re constantly reminded that no one looks like you.
2.08.2016
Winter-y Weekend

Winter-y Weekend

2.08.2016
We've had quite the wild weather patterns lately here in Eastern Massachusetts. For a span of about four days last week the temperature has jumped around from 45 all the way up to 65 degrees. The groundhog didn't see his shadow and I honestly had fleeting thoughts of crocuses blooming early and putting the furniture back on the deck to dine al fresco. The field behind my Dad's house in Maine is littered with bare patches of grass showing through, preventing us from taking the snowmobiles for long days out on the trails. It felt like we were cheating out as New Englander's to not spend at least a few months up to our waists in snow. After all, it's what makes the summer so special, right? The faux-Spring was a nice treat. However, the day after a 60 degree warm up our first real winter storm of the season passed through. And we're currently in the middle of the second, and even bigger, winter storm as I'm writing this. Winter is here. Better late than never.
It's beautiful and it feels right. We're eager to enjoy doing the things we wait all year for riding on the hopes of getting a lot of snow fall like this. I can't say we've ever made it to nearly the second weekend of February and not skied. Luckily, this is all happening in time as we plan to head up to Maine later this week to get back on the slopes. Locally, our favorite way to enjoy the snow is to (carefully) head out in our trusty wagon to the dog park followed by a cruise around the shore to see how the storm is stirring up the sea.

Conway is a rescue originally from Georgia, so we were a bit nervous she'd be majorly apprehensive about the snow, that little peach of ours! Thankfully, she loves it. She gets all sorts of jazzed when we let her off leash at the park to run and hop around with snow up to her ears. It's endlessly entertaining for all three of us. Luckily we remembered to bring our DSLR along with us to one of our trips to the park this weekend so we could capture moments so special yet common, even though it meant being THOSE paparazzi dog-parents. If you can't tell by now, we're slightly obsessed with our dog.




Once she's all tuckered out, a drive around the shore is the best way to wind down before heading home. With the sun setting, Eastern Point was our destination to watch the sky light up. Off we went. Eastern Point is our favorite spot to adventure to since it holds so many happy and loving memories for us. It's a place we've frequented our entire relationship to watch the sunset, take photos together for fun or for my senior thesis project in college, to watch the boat's coming in and out of the harbor, and even to get engaged. The magic this place holds in our hearts never wears away. It's always nice to visit, even just for a short while, to totally connect and enjoy the simple happiness this place fills us with.



We capped off the weekend with a long walk through the fields and trails at Bradley Palmer State Park. Another place that is haven for us. The silence of the woods and the uninterrupted conversation lends itself to a peaceful place for quality time and reflection. The contrast of the ocean and the woods is something I thrive on. The balance of the two makes me whole. It was wonderful to be able to experience both in one weekend. Something in me feels so at peace when that happens. As we walked through the fields, in particular, we couldn't hep but yearn for a huge field of our own. It's our dream and it's nice to feel so fulfilled together when we're in that environment.


This weekend was one that keeps us curious, dreaming and fills us up. Come Monday we feel connected and recharged. We have a lot of fun events planned for February and we're looking forward to spending the next few weekends with family!

How was your weekend? In what moments did you find simple joy?

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I'll leave you with these uh, outtakes... :)
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2.02.2016
Press Play

Press Play

2.02.2016
Wednesday, Wednesday. We're half way through the week - yee haww!

Enjoy this curated list of my top five tracks on repeat at the moment. Listen while working with a cup of warm tea in hand, driving to the mountains this weekend or during a completely common day happening such as you know — folding a huge mound of laundry. However you're filling your cold winter days, may these sounds make it a little warmer.